I've learned from life that you can't influence someone's allegiance. They won't always treat you the same way, no matter how nice you are to them. My spouse and I had been married for many years, but I was unaware of his infidelity. I began to notice behavioral changes all of a sudden, and I knew something wasn't right. I confided in a friend, who persuaded me and put me in touch with Mr. James. My husband's cell phone, text messages, call records, Instagram, browsing history, deleted messages, emails, and WhatsApp were all compromised.When I learned that he was seeing someone else, it seemed like my life was falling apart. I couldn't keep lying, so I filed for divorce. If you require evidence that you have been taken advantage of in your marriage.